I'm taking a break from Face Off Friday to finish the discussion from yesterday. Today: Love Scenes. This could be that kiss that your readers have been rooting for since page three or it can be full out swinging from the chandeliers. If you've done your job building up that sexual tension, your readers should be biting at the bit to get to this part. So don't let them down with a lame, lackluster scene!
What can turn a hot moment cold?
You're squeamishIf you, the author, are not comfortable with the scene, you're readers will be able to tell. Do not write an erotic romance if the thought of typing out four-letter words in a sex scene makes you cringe.Shallow POVThe reader needs to feel like she is in the moment with the characters. So make sure you use Deep POV effectively and don't pull out of that.Lack of character developmentIf your characters are flat, their love scene will be as well.You haven't established sufficient motivation for the scene.Don't have them kiss/jump in bed/etc. just because it feels like a good time. Make sure we know why they are doing this now.You haven't raised the stakes enough.The risk of them getting together is nil and therefore uninteresting. What consequences could happen now that they are giving in to their love/desire for each other?No change happens.Love scenes should change the people involved--be that good or bad.The scene lacks emotion.All we have is description of the physical acts and not what's going on in their heads and hearts. This can turn a great sensual scene into gratuitous (and boring) porn.
So what are some ways to make sure your love scene gets readers' hearts racing?
Make sure you've sufficiently built up tension.See yesterday's post.Write in emotions.Tell us what's running through your character's mind. Often the emotions in this type of scene will be mixed.Love scenes should be tailor-madeYou should not be able to cut and paste it and drop into a different story. Only these two characters could have this exact scene.Conflict should still be present.If both love each other, have no obstacles, and jump in bed--yawn. They have to be risking something. Otherwise, it's just two people doing it.Use dialogue.I love using dialogue in a love scene. Teasing words can be great for tension. Dirty talk can be fun because often it's pushing the other character out of their comfort zone.A sense of humor can come in handyLove scenes don't have to be totally serious. Kissing someone or getting naked with someone can be awkward and a little humor and sarcasm can help ease nerves and bring the characters closer together. I find playful sarcasm sneaking into most of my love scenes because I write snarky characters.Write what you feel comfortable with and what is right for the characters.Love scenes don't have to be fully described (although they can be). You can shut the door and fade to black. It can be a simple kiss. You have to be comfy with the amount you're letting your reader see. And make sure it's appropriate for your character. If you're character is a virgin, don't write a scene where she acts like a pro.Don't fear naughty. If your story calls for a little or a lot of dirty, and you feel comfortable writing that type of scene go for it.If your hero is a notorious badass and playboy, he's probably going to be a little raunchier in bed. And raunchy doesn't have to mean it's porn. If you put in emotion and have built appropriate tension, even a threesome with all the four letter words used can be engaging and romantic. (I've seen it done.)Remember the POV you're writing in.If you are in the hero's point of view, remember that guys are going to think in a different way than the woman. He's probably not having flowery thoughts (maybe love thoughts, but not flowery). And he's hopefully not going to refer to his uh, friend, as his love sword in his head, lol.Speaking of love swords...Don't use cheesy euphemisms and purple prose. You don't have to use the clinical or crude terms (although you can depending on what you're writing), but use ones that don't make your readers laugh or roll their eyes.Make sure it's the right time.Don't put in a love scene just cause you think you need one. Motivate it properly. And it MUST move the plot forward and change the people involved in some way. Every scene has to have that purpose.
Sources: Writing Erotic Romance and Fiction Factor. Another great source (for the 18 and up crowd) author Stacia Kane's Sex Writing Strumpet series of blogs.
And last bit of advice: if your heart isn't racing while you write the scene, you're doing something wrong. You should be anticipating that scene as much as you want your reader to. The first love scene I wrote for my romance, I was sweating by the end of it, lol.
So do you have any tips on writing these scenes? Do you find them difficult to write? (For me they are hard, but so much fun at the same time.) What's one of your favorite love scenes from a book/movie/tv show?
**Today's Theme Song**
"Lay Your Hands on Me" - Bon Jovi
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