The Evolution of Rejection

 

Used with permission from Debbie Ridpath Ohi at Inkygirl.com

As we all know, rejection is a big part of this business.  Like Nora Roberts said, if it were easy to get published and stay published, then it wouldn't be special.  However, that doesn't make rejection any easier to take.

 

I attended a panel at RWA called It's For Your Own Good: What You Can Learn From Rejection.  The panel was led by Brenda Chin, senior editor at Harlequin Blaze and two authors who she had rejected in the past (but had since found success.)

Bravely, the two authors shared their own rejection letters from their past and deciphered the language of the letters to show what the author should take from it.  Really, there are positives in rejection.  No, seriously, there are.

Okay, so here's what they had to say about the different types of "no"...

 

Type one:  The dreaded form rejection

What we hear: You suck
What it can mean:  Pretty much anything...
Story type not right for the agency/publisher
They already have clients that have projects too similar to yours
It just didn't fit that person's tastes
Your writing isn't strong enough yet
They don't think they can sell it
You didn't follow guidelines
You may actually suck or you may be brilliant--you just don't know.

 

 

Type two: The no but here's a positive nugget.

What we hear:  They like me!  But not enough. This is the "really enjoyed your (insert attribute), BUT (insert reason)--usually it's I just didn't fall in love with it.
What it means: You're making progress!  You've done something well!  But it's still a no.

 

 

Type three: The I enjoyed it, but I'm not sure there's a market for it.

What we hear: No one is going to want to buy your book.
What it means: For whatever reason, this agent doesn't feel like they can sell it. However, it doesn't mean that someone else won't want to.  AND, someone actually liked your story!

 

 

Type four: The this project isn't right but would be open to see something else from you in the future.

What we hear: NO
What it means:  THIS project isn't a right fit, but I liked your writing enough to ask to be subjected to  it in the future.  So, you've got skills, baby!

 

 

Type five: The no, these things are an issue, but good luck somewhere else.

What we hear: No, go inflict yourself on someone else.
What it means: They thought you had enough potential to take the time to give you personalized input--don't underestimate how big a deal that is for people who are so darn busy.  And now, you've got usable feedback!  Celebrate!  Take the things they suggested and make your manuscript better.

 

 

Type six: The revise and resubmit

What we hear: Houston, we've got interest!!!
What it means:  They liked your story and you don't suck!  So much so that they want you to fix things and read it again.  *throws confetti*  So get your butt in the chair and get to work.  And remember, resubmit to that agent, don't just fix and move on to another agent.  Give the person who gave you the feedback the chance to see it again

 

Each of these different types (outside of the form rejection, which doesn't tell us much) should be seen as a small victory and a step in the right direction.  Like I talked about earlier this week, persistence is the name of the game.  At each stage of these rejections, people give up and stop writing.  Don't be one of those people.  The only way to guarantee 100% that you'll never get a "yes" is to bow out of the race.

So, what do you think?  Have you experienced these different types of rejections?  What types am I missing?

Also, don't forget to stop by next week.  I'll be talking about my own experience so far in the query wars.  :)

 

**Today's Theme Song**
"Don't Go Away Mad, Just Go Away" -  Motley Crue
(player in sidebar, take a listen)


 

*picture credit: inkygirl.com

Mourning the Death of the First Novel

 

So I finished my first novel, Shadow Falls (paranormal YA) a few months ago. (Well, my first one that counts. The one in high school, well, a novel it was not.) I toiled and tweaked and edited and obsessed. I wrote and rewrote my query, frantically checking query shark to make sure I didn't make any well-known mistakes. I went through a crisis of self-esteem before hitting send on my first agent query--the oh so attractive, sweaty, shaky, I-obviously-can't-put-two-words-together-so-why-am-I-even-bothering stage. This stage was quickly followed by the "is my email working? is my spam filter too strong? why is it not dinging with new emails from agents?" phase. Yes, I know they say to expect a response no sooner than a few weeks or months, but I plugged my ears and sang show tunes to avoid accepting that knowledge.

To my surprise, many responded within two weeks, which made the immediate gratification monster inside me very happy indeed. Unfortunately, most of those responses were form rejections. However, to my great delight (and surprise), I received two request for partials and two requests for fulls pretty quickly from biggie, dream agents. Of course, I was already picturing my book on the shelf despite knowing my chances were still slim. After a few weeks (two months was the longest), I received three form rejections. Total bummer. Looped back to low self-esteem phase.
Then, this week, I received my rejection on the final full I had out. However, this time the agent personalized it. The lovely note contained the words "you are clearly a very talented writer" (woo-hoo) and that my story "had lots of teen appeal" (kickass). However, the story wasn't different enough from what was out there in a now saturated teen paranormal market. (sigh) Then, she asked that if I didn't find an agent this time around, she hoped I would query her on my next project. (Backing away from the ledge).
So, I'm considering the rejection a victory. I still have a few queries floating around, but my hope meter for this first book is definitely on low. I am mourning it's gentle death and will be burying it in the drawer soon. Perhaps it can be resurrected another day with some rewrites. In the meantime, onward and upward. I'm halfway through writing the first draft of a romance novel.
Lessons learned from novel #1: a) I don't totally suck b) I can write a query letter and c) I can handle rejection (mostly)