Roni's June Recs: Read - Watch - Listen

Hey there! It’s summer!

The heat has been blazing here in Texas, so it’s felt like summer for a while, but I know it just became official yesterday. However, I hope you’re already enjoying all those summery things so many of us look forward to.

For me, summer is about vacations, slower days, piles of books to read, escapist TV shows, and listening to great audiobooks and podcasts in the car as I bring the kiddo back and forth to all the summer things.

So I thought today, I’d share some of my favorite finds so far this month!

READ

People have varying ideas of what constitutes a “summer read”. The most classic definition is a frothy, escapist book that is often set on or near a beach and has a cover of bright, summery colors or photos of aforementioned beach. I can definitely be down with that kind of read. However, I don’t limit my summer reading to that.

For me, a summer read means a book that sweeps me away, that I can get lost in. For instance, the first read below is decidedly NOT a summer setting. However, I read almost the whole thing at a NASCAR race when I was hiding underneath the stands from the absolutely boil-your-organs heat. If I can get lost in a book while I’m that hot and while listening to the deafening sound of race cars, that is a book that is truly escapist.

I also tend to reach for “juicy” books during the summer. Over the top reads that are just a little too much but in the best way.

So here we go!

The Maidens by Alex Michaelides

About the book:

Edward Fosca is a murderer. Of this Mariana is certain. But Fosca is untouchable. A handsome and charismatic Greek tragedy professor at Cambridge University, Fosca is adored by staff and students alike―particularly by the members of a secret society of female students known as The Maidens.

Mariana Andros is a brilliant but troubled group therapist who becomes fixated on The Maidens when one member, a friend of Mariana’s niece Zoe, is found murdered in Cambridge.

Mariana, who was once herself a student at the university, quickly suspects that behind the idyllic beauty of the spires and turrets, and beneath the ancient traditions, lies something sinister. And she becomes convinced that, despite his alibi, Edward Fosca is guilty of the murder. But why would the professor target one of his students? And why does he keep returning to the rites of Persephone, the maiden, and her journey to the underworld?

When another body is found, Mariana’s obsession with proving Fosca’s guilt spirals out of control, threatening to destroy her credibility as well as her closest relationships. But Mariana is determined to stop this killer, even if it costs her everything―including her own life.

My thoughts:

This was a Book of the Month pick and pushed one of my big reader buttons—my love of a campus novel. (Want more campus novel recs? Check out this post.) I haven’t read The Silent Patient (though I own it and plan to) but the concept of this one called to me, so I picked it up first. Sometimes when it’s hot outside, there’s nothing like escaping into a some place cooler. A prestigious university in England fit the bill. There are lots of twists and turns to keep the pages flipping and enough characterization that my character-driven heart was satisfied.

Shadow and Bone by Leigh Bardugo

About the book:

Soldier. Summoner. Saint. Orphaned and expendable, Alina Starkov is a soldier who knows she may not survive her first trek across the Shadow Fold―a swath of unnatural darkness crawling with monsters. But when her regiment is attacked, Alina unleashes dormant magic not even she knew she possessed.

Now Alina will enter a lavish world of royalty and intrigue as she trains with the Grisha, her country’s magical military elite―and falls under the spell of their notorious leader, the Darkling. He believes Alina can summon a force capable of destroying the Shadow Fold and reuniting their war-ravaged country, but only if she can master her untamed gift.

As the threat to the kingdom mounts and Alina unlocks the secrets of her past, she will make a dangerous discovery that could threaten all she loves and the very future of a nation.

Welcome to Ravka . . . a world of science and superstition where nothing is what it seems.

My thoughts:

I read Ninth House by Leigh Badugo a while back and I LOVED it. So when I realized I’d missed her popular GrishaVerse series (and that it was about to become a Netflix show), I knew I needed to remedy this immediately. I’m not always in the mood for a fantasy-type read. I tend to have a love/hate relationship with the genre. When I read a fantasy book, it either becomes one of my favorites of the year or I can’t get though it. I rarely have middling feelings about them.

However, I’m happy to report that Shadow and Bone, which is based on a Russian type mythology, totally hooked me. Really, anything that has a character named The Darkling probably had my name on it. I do love a darkly charming is he/isn’t he a villain type character. I raced through the whole trilogy and promptly bought the spinoffs. Since then, I’ve read Six of Crows (which I liked but didn’t love quite as much since it’s more of a heist-based plot) and have taken a break from the series just because I don’t like to stay in one zone for too long. I will go back though. Choose this if you want to binge a series.

Conversations with Friends by Sally Rooney

About the book:

Frances is a coolheaded and darkly observant young woman, vaguely pursuing a career in writing while studying in Dublin. Her best friend is the beautiful and endlessly self-possessed Bobbi. At a local poetry performance one night, they meet a well-known photographer, and as the girls are then gradually drawn into her world, Frances is reluctantly impressed by the older woman’s sophisticated home and handsome husband, Nick. But however amusing Frances and Nick’s flirtation seems at first, it begins to give way to a strange—and then painful—intimacy.

Written with gemlike precision and marked by a sly sense of humor, Conversations with Friends is wonderfully alive to the pleasures and dangers of youth, and the messy edges of female friendship.

My thoughts:

Last year, one of my favorite reads was Normal People by Sally Rooney. It was far outside of what I normally read—her books are often labeled grim millennial literary fiction. But for some reason, it grabbed me. I watched the TV show first though, so I thought that may have been why. So I picked up Conversations with Friends with a bit of trepidation because I didn’t know if I’d still enjoy the writing as much if I hadn’t formed images of the characters first from a TV show.

I shouldn’t have worried. I can’t exactly pinpoint WHY Rooney’s writing works for me, but it does. As a writer, I tend to write very open, talk-about-their-feelings kinds of characters. (I think this comes from my former therapist background.) So, a book like this where everyone is SO EMOTIONALLY REPRESSED should drive me nuts. And on one level, it does. I want to shake them and tell them, “Just tell people how you feel, dammit!” But but but, I can’t stop reading lol.

This book is grim and literary and there isn’t a ton of plot. (I’m really selling it, eh?) But it’s deeply character-driven, and I’m a junkie for characterization. So…your mileage may vary if you don’t read much lit fic, but I’ll definitely be picking up Rooney’s next novel because her books seem to scratch some itch I didn’t know I had.

I Feel Bad About My Neck by Nora Ephron

About the book:

With her disarming, intimate, completely accessible voice, and dry sense of humor, Nora Ephron shares with us her ups and downs in I Feel Bad About My Neck, a candid, hilarious look at women who are getting older and dealing with the tribulations of maintenance, menopause, empty nests, and life itself.

Ephron chronicles her life as an obsessed cook, passionate city dweller, and hapless parent. But mostly she speaks frankly and uproariously about life as a woman of a certain age. Utterly courageous, uproariously funny, and unexpectedly moving in its truth telling, I Feel Bad About My Neck is a scrumptious, irresistible treat of a book, full of truths, laugh out loud moments that will appeal to readers of all ages.

My thoughts:

Do I really have to sell you on Nora Ephron? Probably not. If you’re looking for something to make you laugh but that also has some poignant and thought-provoking parts, this is for you. Ephron writes in a way that makes it feel like you’re having drinks will a really wry and entertaining friend. I raced through this one and highlighted a lot of passages. The sections toward the end made me a little sad, knowing she’s not with us anymore, but I’m so glad I read it. Just her thoughts on raising adolescents made me feel better because I’m in the thick of that phase of parenting right now, lol.

WATCH

When it comes to TV watching, I have shows I watch with my whole family, ones I watch just with the kiddo (age 13), ones I watch just with the hubs, and ones I watch alone. I’m looking for different criteria in each category, but here are a few that I’m loving right now.

Show I’m Watching with the Fam

The Good Place (Netflix)

I had watched some of this series on my own when it first came out but then I lost track of it. However, when I was looking for a new show to watch with the whole family, it came up as a suggestion. I’m so glad I went back to it! All three of us are fully enjoying it and truly do laugh aloud. It’s so freaking clever.

The basic premise is that Eleanor (Kristen Bell) has died and finds herself in The Good Place (aka heaven) but it isn’t what she’d thought it be and she realizes quickly that she’s not supposed to be there…because she was actually a really crappy person on earth. But she can’t let anyone find out because then she’ll be sent to the bad place. Antics ensue.

Please don’t look for spoilers—just dive in and enjoy. Also note that even though I’m listing this as a family watch, I wouldn’t recommend it for younger kids. They can’t curse in the good place (it changes curse words to substitutes—go fork yourself) but there are some sexual jokes and situations.

Shows I Watch Solo

Cruel Summer (Hulu)

Admission: I love a soapy, over-the-top or overly angsty teen or college show. I grew up on Dawson’s Creek and Felicity and My So-Called Life. I don’t care that I’m in my 40s, these kinds of shows are still like candy to me. So, when I saw that Cruel Summer was going to be about high school students, a kidnapped teen, and that it was set in the 90s, I was all in.

The premise is unique—each episode covers the same day on each of three different years. So you see parts of the story from the year before/when the kidnapping took place, the year while the girl was missing, and the year of aftermath. The triple timeline really keeps you guessing and there are lots of twists along the way. I finished it this week and thoroughly enjoyed the ride. And fun bonus, it was taped nearby, so I recognized a lot of the locations.

Shadow & Bone (Netflix)

As I mentioned above, I loved the books, so I definitely was interested in the show. I’m only a few episodes in, but so far, they seem to be doing a good job translating the book to screen. I will note, however, that though it’s called Shadow and Bone, they also weaved in the Six of Crows book. So, if you’re someone who wants to read the books before the show, you’ll need to read Shadow & Bone and Six of Crows not to be spoiled.

Elite (Netflix)

I am brand new to this one, so I can’t necessarily recommend it yet, but I’ve watched two episodes so far and I’m intrigued. Warning, this is a show from Spain, so you either have to pick dubbed dialogue or read subtitles. I tried the dubbed, but it sounded weird to me. I’m liking the subtitles better.

As I mentioned above, I love a campus novel, so hearing that this show was set at an elite high school where three not-so-elite outsiders have gotten scholarships pushed my campus novel button. Mean girls, entitled boys, too much money and hormones and not enough parental supervision? Yes, please. If that’s your thing, maybe check it out. I will note that this is about teens but NOT a teen show. There is nudity/sex.

What I’m Watching with the Teen

Big Bang Theory

I missed this show the first time around, but the kiddo and I are enjoying the heck out of working our way through these. I love a show that is both clever and makes you genuinely laugh out loud. And it can be kind of tough to find something that both me and the thirteen year old can enjoy together, so this is perfect.

LISTEN

Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey

I’m not all the way through this, but it’s been so entertaining so far. I love listening to a memoir as an audiobook because I think it just adds so much to hear a person tell their own story. And Matthew is a storyteller. He’s that guy you’d buy a beer, and he’d just weave tales about “this one time.” His stories are funny and entertaining. He intersperses “bumper sticker” lessons and some poetry. He laughs at his own stories. It’s just a fun ride.

Whew! That was a lot. I hope you found something to add to your summer! Happy reading and watching and listening, y’all. :)

What’s been your favorite read, watch, or listen so far this summer season?

What To Read: A Beachy Book, A Murdery Book, & One to Help with the Sads

Reading has always been my go-to method for fun and comfort. So it’s been interesting that during this pandemic, I’ve been less likely to pick up a book. It’s as if because the world is flipped upside down, my normal habits are too. So even though I was way ahead of pace on my reading challenge by March, now I find myself seven books behind.

I think this is partly because it’s hard to get lost in something when there’s so much going on in the world. Also, my kiddo is home all day with me and my husband is home a lot more, so quiet reading time is hard to come by. So, for a book to really capture me right now means it’s a REALLY great book.

The good news is that I’ve had two of those make that cut recently. Both were through my Book of the Month club subscription, so I guess they’re doing something right over there! (That link is a referral link, but this post isn’t sponsored.)

First up is Beach Read by Emily Henry. This one caught my attention because the heroine is a romance novelist, so of course, I needed to read that. What was a cute set up (see summary below) turned out to be a more poignant story than the cover would have you believe, but you know I love that. I write those kinds of books—ones that are romantic but also contain darker emotions and backstories. Though I can enjoy the lighter, lower conflict romances, my sweet spot is ones that have more angst. So I really enjoyed this read.

About the book:

A romance writer who no longer believes in love and a literary writer stuck in a rut engage in a summer-long challenge that may just upend everything they believe about happily ever afters.

Augustus Everett is an acclaimed author of literary fiction. January Andrews writes bestselling romance. When she pens a happily ever after, he kills off his entire cast. 

They're polar opposites. 

In fact, the only thing they have in common is that for the next three months, they're living in neighboring beach houses, broke, and bogged down with writer's block.

Until, one hazy evening, one thing leads to another and they strike a deal designed to force them out of their creative ruts: Augustus will spend the summer writing something happy, and January will pen the next Great American Novel. She'll take him on field trips worthy of any rom-com montage, and he'll take her to interview surviving members of a backwoods death cult (obviously). Everyone will finish a book and no one will fall in love. Really.

Next up was one that I raced through. I’ll preface this by saying I’m not typically a mystery reader. Usually, I’m like—meh, I don’t care who did it. Because mysteries, in general, tend to be a lot more plot-focused than character-focused, and I’m just a character-hungry reader. However, A Good Girl’s Guide to Murder by Holly Jackson, a YA mystery, had a great balance of both character and plot. Plus, I love true crime podcasts, and this definitely seemed inspired by season one of the podcast Serial.

I didn’t guess the ending, and I was interested in knowing who did it, but I also loved the characters (there’s also a touch of romance.) I actually enjoyed them so much that I went through the trouble of ordering a UK copy of book two from Book Depository because I don’t want to wait for the U.S. version to release lol. So, if that’s not an endorsement, I don’t know what is.

About the book:

For readers of Kara Thomas and Karen McManus, an addictive, twisty crime thriller with shades of Serial and Making a Murderer about a closed local murder case that doesn't add up, and a girl who's determined to find the real killer--but not everyone wants her meddling in the past.

Everyone in Fairview knows the story.

Pretty and popular high school senior Andie Bell was murdered by her boyfriend, Sal Singh, who then killed himself. It was all anyone could talk about. And five years later, Pip sees how the tragedy still haunts her town.

But she can't shake the feeling that there was more to what happened that day. She knew Sal when she was a child, and he was always so kind to her. How could he possibly have been a killer?

Now a senior herself, Pip decides to reexamine the closed case for her final project, at first just to cast doubt on the original investigation. But soon she discovers a trail of dark secrets that might actually prove Sal innocent . . . and the line between past and present begins to blur. Someone in Fairview doesn't want Pip digging around for answers, and now her own life might be in danger.

This is the story of an investigation turned obsession, full of twists and turns and with an ending you'll never expect.

Finally, this isn’t a fiction recommendation, but with everyone going through so much right now, I know I’m not the only one struggling with bouts of anxiety and sadness. So, if you’re looking for some simple ways to boost your mood, the book The Upward Spiral by Alex Korb had a lot of great, scientifically-based suggestions. He gets a little technical with the neurotransmitter talk and such, but you don’t need to understand all of that to understand the tactics and techniques he’s suggesting. I found this was a quick read with lots of helpful things to try.

Alright, that’s all I’ve got for you today. I hope you have a great weekend!

What have you read lately that you were able to get lost in?

My Favorite Reads of 2019

Last week, I posted a list of my top 5 audiobooks of 2019. Today, I’m bringing you my favorites in print and ebook. I had trouble narrowing down the list, which is a good problem to have. It means I’ve read a lot of great books this year! But to make it easier to go through, I’ve separated my faves out by category.

Hopefully, you’ll find some to add to your holiday wishlist!

Favorite Romances

Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen

Yes, I’m a romance writer who had only seen the movie and had never read the actual book. I blame high school for making me scared to read classics. I’m so glad I finally picked this one up. You can read about my full thoughts in this post.

Red, White & Royal Blue by Casey McQuiston

This one was just a delight all around. Fun, sexy, and sweet.

About the book:

What happens when America's First Son falls in love with the Prince of Wales?

When his mother became President, Alex Claremont-Diaz was promptly cast as the American equivalent of a young royal. Handsome, charismatic, genius—his image is pure millennial-marketing gold for the White House. There's only one problem: Alex has a beef with the actual prince, Henry, across the pond. And when the tabloids get hold of a photo involving an Alex-Henry altercation, U.S./British relations take a turn for the worse.

Heads of family, state, and other handlers devise a plan for damage control: staging a truce between the two rivals. What at first begins as a fake, Instragramable friendship grows deeper, and more dangerous, than either Alex or Henry could have imagined. Soon Alex finds himself hurtling into a secret romance with a surprisingly unstuffy Henry that could derail the campaign and upend two nations and begs the question: Can love save the world after all? Where do we find the courage, and the power, to be the people we are meant to be? And how can we learn to let our true colors shine through?

Misadventures with a Professor by Sierra Simone

I have trouble reading erotic romance these days because I tend to be extra tough on it (having written in that genre for so long) but I’m happy to report that this one was fantastic. Great writing, very steamy, and had likable characters. I’ll definitely be picking up more by this author.

About the book:

Zandy Lynch never planned on going to grad school a virgin. So when her professor father finds her a job abroad as a research assistant the summer before she starts her master’s program, she sees her chance. She’s got one night in London to lose her V-card to a Mr. Darcy lookalike before she has to join some ancient professor in the country.

Oliver Graeme is not looking forward to having some American co-ed hovering around while he’s trying to work, but he owes her father the favor, and besides, his office is an untidy mess of uncatalogued research. He needs the help. Still, he decides to take the edge off his frustration while visiting a colleague in London, and winds up having the sexiest, sweetest night of his life with a stranger, who vanishes in the morning without a trace…

To Zandy’s shock when she arrives at Professor Graeme’s house a day later, the door isn’t opened by a fussy old scholar, but by the wild, passionate man she met in London. Cold and reserved by day, Oliver is ferociously greedy with her at night, and it’s not long before Zandy finds herself falling for both versions of him—the aloof professor and the generous, rough lover. The trouble is that summer only lasts so long, and Zandy already has a plane ticket waiting to take her home…

Picture Perfect Cowboy by Tiffany Reisz

I always enjoy Tiffany’s writing, so this one isn’t a surprise. It’s super steamy with great backstory and emotion packed into this quick novella.

About the book:

Jason "Still" Waters' life looks perfect from the outside—money, fame, and the words "World Champion Bull-Rider" after his name. But Jason has a secret, one he never planned on telling anybody...until he meets Simone. She's the kinky girl of his dreams...and his conservative family's worst nightmare.

Favorite YA

Emergency Contact by Mary H. K. Choi

Quotes from my private reading journal about this book: “funny and weird and sweet” and “the end gave me the awws”. This one took a little bit to get into at first, but once I was hooked, I was hooked. Great story.

About the book:

For Penny Lee high school was a total nonevent. Her friends were okay, her grades were fine, and while she somehow managed to land a boyfriend, he doesn’t actually know anything about her. When Penny heads to college in Austin, Texas, to learn how to become a writer, it’s seventy-nine miles and a zillion light years away from everything she can’t wait to leave behind.

Sam’s stuck. Literally, figuratively, emotionally, financially. He works at a café and sleeps there too, on a mattress on the floor of an empty storage room upstairs. He knows that this is the god-awful chapter of his life that will serve as inspiration for when he’s a famous movie director but right this second the seventeen bucks in his checking account and his dying laptop are really testing him.

When Sam and Penny cross paths it’s less meet-cute and more a collision of unbearable awkwardness. Still, they swap numbers and stay in touch—via text—and soon become digitally inseparable, sharing their deepest anxieties and secret dreams without the humiliating weirdness of having to see each other.

This Song Will Save Your Life by Leila Sales

I really enjoyed the peek into the art of DJing in this book, and though it wasn’t a romance, I feel like the hook-up was portrayed well and served the story. I’m looking forward to reading more by this author.

About the book:

Making friends has never been Elise Dembowski's strong suit. All throughout her life, she's been the butt of every joke and the outsider in every conversation. When a final attempt at popularity fails, Elise nearly gives up.

Then she stumbles upon a warehouse party where she meets Vicky, a girl in a band who accepts her; Char, a cute, yet mysterious disc jockey; Pippa, a carefree spirit from England; and most importantly, a love for DJing.

Told in a refreshingly genuine and laugh-out-loud funny voice, Leila Sales' This Song Will Save Your Life powerful young adult coming of age novel is an exuberant story about identity, friendship, and the power of music to bring people together.

Favorite Horror/Thriller

No Exit by Taylor Adams

This was one was billed as a thriller, but I think it reads more like a tense horror movie. I prefer horror to thriller so that totally worked for me. Here’s a quote from my original review: “The best way I can describe this book is take the claustrophobic, trapped feeling of The Shining (minus the supernatural) and mix it with a villain who just won’t stop like Michael Myers in the Halloween movies, and this is what you get.” Read my full review here. This is a great one for a winter read because the main character is snowed in at the rest stop.

About the book:

On her way to Utah to see her dying mother, college student Darby Thorne gets caught in a fierce blizzard in the mountains of Colorado. With the roads impassable, she’s forced to wait out the storm at a remote highway rest stop. Inside, are some vending machines, a coffee maker, and four complete strangers.

Desperate to find a signal to call home, Darby goes back out into the storm . . . and makes a horrifying discovery. In the back of the van parked next to her car, a little girl is locked in an animal crate.

Who is the child? Why has she been taken? And how can Darby save her?

There is no cell phone reception, no telephone, and no way out. One of her fellow travelers is a kidnapper. But which one?

Trapped in an increasingly dangerous situation, with a child’s life and her own on the line, Darby must find a way to break the girl out of the van and escape.

But who can she trust?

Ninth House by Leigh Bardugo

Clever world-building in this one (which took a while to set up in the story, but was worth the time) and I didn’t guess the mystery, which I always love. I’m also a sucker for a dark book set at a university. (This one is set at a supernatural version of Yale.) It did have a cliffhanger about one plot line but wrapped up the main one, so I didn’t get too frustrated with a partial cliffhanger. The next book doesn’t come out until 2021, so I will be eagerly awaiting the next one.

About the book:

Galaxy “Alex” Stern is the most unlikely member of Yale’s freshman class. Raised in the Los Angeles hinterlands by a hippie mom, Alex dropped out of school early and into a world of shady drug dealer boyfriends, dead-end jobs, and much, much worse. By age twenty, in fact, she is the sole survivor of a horrific, unsolved multiple homicide. Some might say she’s thrown her life away. But at her hospital bed, Alex is offered a second chance: to attend one of the world’s most elite universities on a full ride. What’s the catch, and why her?

Still searching for answers to this herself, Alex arrives in New Haven tasked by her mysterious benefactors with monitoring the activities of Yale’s secret societies. These eight windowless “tombs” are well-known to be haunts of the future rich and powerful, from high-ranking politicos to Wall Street and Hollywood’s biggest players. But their occult activities are revealed to be more sinister and more extraordinary than any paranoid imagination might conceive.

Verity by Colleen Hoover

This one is labeled a romantic thriller. Quote from my private reading journal: “This book was super dark and a mindf**k. I couldn’t turn the pages fast enough.” This one was legitimately creepy and had a gothic feel to it with a big, old house, an invalid wife, and a creepy kid. It kept me guessing, and I’m really glad it didn’t turn out to be a trope I hate in thrillers. I won’t say what that trope is because I don’t want to risk spoilers.

About the book:

Lowen Ashleigh is a struggling writer on the brink of financial ruin when she accepts the job offer of a lifetime. Jeremy Crawford, husband of bestselling author Verity Crawford, has hired Lowen to complete the remaining books in a successful series his injured wife is unable to finish.

Lowen arrives at the Crawford home, ready to sort through years of Verity's notes and outlines, hoping to find enough material to get her started. What Lowen doesn't expect to uncover in the chaotic office is an unfinished autobiography Verity never intended for anyone to read. Page after page of bone-chilling admissions, including Verity's recollection of what really happened the day her daughter died.

Lowen decides to keep the manuscript hidden from Jeremy, knowing its contents would devastate the already grieving father. But as Lowen's feelings for Jeremy begin to intensify, she recognizes all the ways she could benefit if he were to read his wife's words. After all, no matter how devoted Jeremy is to his injured wife, a truth this horrifying would make it impossible for him to continue to love her.

Favorite Non-Fiction

Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport

Y’all probably have figured out that I love just about anything from Cal Newport. This book was no exception. You can read about my digital declutter, inspired by this book, in this blog post.

About the book:

The key to living well in a high tech world is to spend much less time using technology.

Georgetown computer scientist Cal Newport's Deep Work sparked a movement around the idea that unbroken concentration produces far more value than the electronic busyness that defines the modern work day. But his readers had an urgent follow-up question: What about technology in our personal lives?

In recent years, our culture's relationship with personal technology has transformed from something exciting into something darker. Innovations like smartphones and social media are useful, but many of us are increasingly troubled by how much control these tools seem to exert over our daily experiences--including how we spend our free time and how we feel about ourselves.

In Digital Minimalism, Newport proposes a bold solution: a minimalist approach to technology use in which you radically reduce the time you spend online, focusing on a small set of carefully-selected activities while happily ignoring the rest.

He mounts a vigorous defense for this less-is-more approach, combining historical examples with case studies of modern digital minimalists to argue that this philosophy isn't a rejection of technology, but instead a necessary realignment to ensure that these tools serve us, not the other way around.

To make these principles practical, he takes us inside the growing subculture of digital minimalists who have built rich lives on a foundation of intentional technology use, and details a decluttering process that thousands have already used to simplify their online lives. He also stresses the importance of never clicking "like," explores the underappreciated value of analog hobbies, and draws lessons from the "attention underground"--a resistance movement fighting the tech companies' attempts to turn us into gadget addicts.

Digital Minimalism is an indispensable guide for anyone looking to reclaim their life from the alluring diversions of the digital world.

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone by Lori Gottlieb

From my original review: “As some of you know, I was a social worker/therapist before I left to be a full-time writer, so I’m already a psychology nerd. But this book was so much more than a look at psychology. Gottlieb is an experienced writer and storyteller, so what could’ve been dry was a rich and heartfelt page-turner. I got attached to the clients she featured and was invested in her own story as well. I have so many underlined passages in this one, and it made me think deeply about big life issues like mid-life crises and how to deal with fear of death and so much else. This one is sad at parts but ultimately uplifting and life-affirming. I want to put this book in everyone’s hands.”

About the book:

From a New York Times best-selling author, psychotherapist, and national advice columnist, a hilarious, thought-provoking, and surprising new book that takes us behind the scenes of a therapist's world--where her patients are looking for answers (and so is she).

One day, Lori Gottlieb is a therapist who helps patients in her Los Angeles practice. The next, a crisis causes her world to come crashing down. Enter Wendell, the quirky but seasoned therapist in whose office she suddenly lands. With his balding head, cardigan, and khakis, he seems to have come straight from Therapist Central Casting. Yet he will turn out to be anything but.

As Gottlieb explores the inner chambers of her patients' lives -- a self-absorbed Hollywood producer, a young newlywed diagnosed with a terminal illness, a senior citizen threatening to end her life on her birthday if nothing gets better, and a twenty-something who can't stop hooking up with the wrong guys -- she finds that the questions they are struggling with are the very ones she is now bringing to Wendell.

With startling wisdom and humor, Gottlieb invites us into her world as both clinician and patient, examining the truths and fictions we tell ourselves and others as we teeter on the tightrope between love and desire, meaning and mortality, guilt and redemption, terror and courage, hope and change.

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone is revolutionary in its candor, offering a deeply personal yet universal tour of our hearts and minds and providing the rarest of gifts: a boldly revealing portrait of what it means to be human, and a disarmingly funny and illuminating account of our own mysterious lives and our power to transform them.

On Being 40ish edited by Lindsey Mead

Guess who turned 40 this year? ;) I loved this collection of essays. Some were funny, some poignant, some powerful. If you’re a woman of a certain age, there’s a lot here to enjoy.

About the book:

Fifteen powerful women and writers you know and love—from the pages of the New Yorker, New York Times, Vogue, Glamour, and The Atlantic—offer captivating, intimate, and candid explorations about what it’s really like turning forty—and that the best is yet to come.

The big 4-0. Like eighteen and twenty-one, this is a major and meaningful milestone our lives—especially for women. Turning forty is a poignant doorway between youth and…what comes after; a crossroads to reflect on the roads taken and not, and the paths yet before you. The decade that follows is ripe for nostalgia, inspiration, wisdom, and personal growth.

In this dazzling collection, fifteen writers explore this rich phase in essays that are profound, moving and above all, brimming with joie de vivre. With a diverse array of voices—including Veronica Chambers, Meghan Daum, Kate Bolick, Taffy Brodesser-Akner, Sloane Crosley, KJ Dell’Antonia, Julie Klam, Jessica Lahey, Catherine Newman, Sujean Rim, Jena Schwartz, Sophfronia Scott, Allison Winn Scotch, Lee Woodruff, and Jill Kargman—On Being 40(ish) offers deeply personal, often hilarious perspectives across a range of universal themes—friendship, independence, sex, beauty, aging, wisdom, and the passage of time.

Beautifully designed to make the perfect gift, and to be a treasure to turn to time and time again, On Being 40(ish) reflects the hopes, fears, challenges and opportunities of a generation.

*Be sure to check out my Top 5 Non-Fiction Favorite in Audio of you want more non-fiction

Favorites on Writing/Creativity

Dear Writer, Are You In Burnout? by Becca Syme

I’m always recommending Becca’s classes to my writer friends, but now she also has books! This one was a must read for me because I am someone who cycles in and out of creative burnout on a pretty consistent basis—some burnouts worse than others. This book goes over the signs and what you can do to work your way out of burnout—and hopefully how to prevent yourself from ending up there again in the future.

About the book:

The industry is moving at a breakneck pace and writers are burning out everywhere. Write fast, write first, write every day... it's all taking its toll.

Some of us are built for this speed. Some of us are not. How do you know if you're in burnout? And if you are in it, how do you get out of it? Is it avoidable?

Author coach Becca Syme has been working with thousands of fiction and nonfiction authors, and has seen the burnout firsthand. This book is based on a popular series of videos from her authortube channel, The QuitCast, where she outlined the process of burnout, how to understand it and how to survive it.

This is a topic that, if it's part of your journey, will not go away until you face it. If you are in burnout, or are afraid you're headed for it, please get this book. It's time to face the pit together.

Keep Going by Austin Kleon

A small book chock full of inspiration and good advice for the creative. I really like Kleon’s style of books (go with the print version and not the ebook because of the drawings.) This is one to keep on your shelf and go back to when you need a little creative boost.

About the book:

In his previous books Steal Like an Artist and Show Your Work!, both New York Times bestsellers, Austin Kleon gave readers the keys to unlock their creativity and showed them how to become known. Now he offers his most inspiring work yet, with ten simple rules for how to stay creative, focused, and true to yourself—for life.

The creative life is not a linear journey to a finish line, it’s a loop—so find a daily routine, because today is the only day that matters. Disconnect from the world to connect with yourself—sometimes you just have to switch into airplane mode. Keep Going celebrates getting outdoors and taking a walk (as director Ingmar Bergman told his daughter, ”The demons hate fresh air”). Pay attention, and especially pay attention to what you pay attention to. Worry less about getting things done, and more about the worth of what you’re doing. Instead of focusing on making your mark, work to leave things better than you found them.

Keep Going and its timeless, practical, and ethical principles are for anyone trying to sustain a meaningful and productive life.

Hey, you’ve made it to the end! Hope you found something you’d like to read.

I’d love to hear your favorite read of 2019. :)

A Quick, Satisfying Short Story (and it's free!): Evidence of the Affair

Typically, I’m not a short story reader. I have nothing against them and have even written a few that are tucked into the back of some of the paperback versions of my books, but I don’t often gravitate to reading them. I think there are a number of reasons for this. One, often short stories fall under the literary fiction category, and I’m more of a commercial fiction gal. Two, I like to be immersed in a story and short stories have less time to get me into that state. Three, I don’t know if it’s just been my luck, but the short stories I’ve read have often had no real ending or are super grim, and they’ve left me with a “what was the point of that?” feeling.

However, I’m happy to report that none of those are the case in the one I’m recommending today. I’m not even sure how Evidence of the Affair came into my line of sight. I’m sure the Amazon recommending machine was at work. But when I saw the cover (I love mid-century modern architecture—though I’m freaked out by all the windows now after reading I’ll Be Gone in the Dark), my attention was snagged. Then I saw it was written by Taylor Jenkins Read, who has written some of my favorite books of the last decade or so of my reading life. That’s all I needed to know. I was in. Bonus surprise: the short story is free if you’re an Amazon Prime member or if you have Kindle Unlimited. (If not, the 1.99 price is still a steal.)

This story is set in the 1970s (another thing I loved about it) and told all through letters. I love stories told in interesting ways, and the epistolary format really worked here. The main letters being exchanged are from the spouses of the cheating partners. One discovers the affair and writes to the other. Interspersed are letters between the cheating couple. I wasn’t sure where the story would go and it kept me guessing (and got me worried at points), but I will say that it was a satisfying ending.

So, if you’re looking for something a little different or for a quick read to get out of a reading slump (or to beef up your reading challenge numbers!), I recommend picking up Evidence of the Affair. If you like her writing style, I highly recommend tracking down her backlist. I’m still working my way through hers, but One True Loves has been my favorite so far.

Happy reading!

Any good short stories to recommend?

Roni Recommends: Two Feel-Good Reads for Your Weekend

First, I just want to say I’m sending good thoughts to those on the east coast who are dealing with Hurricane Florence today. I hope you all are staying safe. As I mentioned earlier in the week, I was supposed to be in Maryland this weekend for a signing at Nora Roberts’ bookstore Turn the Page. Because of the weather and the fact that I would’ve been flying through the hurricane zone, I had to cancel. But I will be working with the bookstore to reschedule sometime in 2019.

Okay, on to the books! This week I’ve been in the mood to read something fun and fluffy. And I say “fluffy” with the upmost respect, by the way. My definition of fluffy is a book that is a page-turner that makes me laugh and smile and get all the warm and fuzzy feels. Fluffy is actually really hard to pull off. So I was delighted this week to not just fine one but TWO great books that fit the bill.

I devoured these two books, reading them in every little crevice of time between work and family stuff, and now I have the dreaded BOOK HANGOVER. I tried to read something new last night and picked up three different books, read the first chapters, and was like…meh. Book hangovers are both the best (yay it means I’ve read a fantastic book) and the worst (now nothing seems to live up to it.)

So, first up, is a book you’ve probably seen everywhere because it’s a new release by the popular writing duo, Christina Lauren. Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating is the third book I’ve read by Christina Lauren this year, so that’s saying something because I tend not to read a bunch of books by the same author in a short span of time. (Weird reader quirk.) The only author recently who had me doing that was Colleen Hoover. So this is a rarity. I think what I like so much about the Christina Lauren books is that they have a lot of humor and a great voice. Josh and Hazel’s Guide to Not Dating was no exception.

This book was a romantic comedy with the friends-to-lovers trope (a trope I adore.) Josh and Hazel are friends and decide to help set each other up on dates, and they keep going on these awful, often funny double dates. Hazel is kind of a manic-pixie-dream-girl type but with more substance so she’s very zany, over the top, and totally accepting that she is who she is. Josh is the quieter, more thoughtful type. But together, they were a really fun pair to watch. I laughed aloud a number of times. It’s a really cute book that will leave you feeling good, so if you’re looking for a pick-me-up, you can’t go wrong here.

Next up is Along for the Ride by Sarah Dessen, a YA contemporary with a romance. Somehow I have managed to never read a Sarah Dessen novel. I’m not even sure how that is possible. I had three of her books on my e-reader, so clearly I am attracted to the premises in her books, but I’ve managed to not read a one. I have now fixed this—hurrah!—and I’m so glad I did.

Along for the Ride is a story about Auden’s last summer before she goes to college. She lives with her very pretentious professor mother but decides to spend the summer in a beach town with her father, his new wife, and their new baby. Auden was a hard character to connect with upfront because she is so self-contained and has been trained to basically be all work and no play. She’s also supremely lonely and doesn’t know how to connect with kids her own age.

However, once she moves in with her dad, she begins getting exposed to all kinds of things her rigorously academic upbringing has not afforded her. Making friends with girls her age, meeting a boy she likes, and doing fun activities that have nothing to do with academics. There is a sweet romance in this story, but I hesitate to call it a YA romance because though the romance thread is strong, a big portion of this book is about Auden’s journey (her relationship with others, her parents, and how she sees herself.) So this one has some meat to it but still gives you that summery ahh feeling of a beach read. I zoomed through this one even though it’s not a short book. This definitely won’t be the last Sarah Dessen book I read.

So that’s what I’ve got for you and now I must find something to get over my book hangover. I’m thinking maybe a historical romance because I realized when I looked through my book journal that I have read NO historicals in 2018. How is that even possible? I must fix this immediately.

What are you reading this weekend? Or, tell me what’s the last book that gave you a book hangover?